The Power lies within you.

As Rumi states:
"The wound is the place where the light enters you, it's through these wounds or cracks - which often want to hide because you've been taught or told to be ashamed of them- That your lights escapes into the world and helps other people feel seen heard and understood."

What If you acknowledge yourself and learn to be the best version of yourself, - The best version of you is yours to create!!!
And by learning what your best is, you can in turn more lovingly support others and make a profound difference in the world.

What is the best version of yourself?
Best doesn't mean Perfect.
Thats too much to expect, Living perfect lives in perfect ways is not realistic or achievable.
If you wait until you're perfect or ready, you'll be waiting forever
Because Noone is perfect - who you are today is more than good enough..

Very often as moms we are stuck in "Failure to Launch" mode, frozen as we wait for our life to reach the right ratio of good or bad, or till we have figured out all and measured the consequences- if you cn't do it the right way you will not do it at all!!

Let go off this fear:
Wrong decisions, wrong choices, mistakes, giving into your need and decision in indecision is what makes you YOU.

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